Ah, does the cross posting box not stay checked? I'll have to pay attention to that. It *looks* like it's checked when I start posting, but I don't pay much attention to it after that. (Also, I had no trouble at all until September, when apparently it just stopped working. It shouldn't surprise me that websites change, but there's a part of me that thinks of it as more permanent than it really is.) Thanks for the tip!

And thank you for thinking of me as a calm person! I'm all internal anxiety and constantly trying to take deep breaths, maintain perspective, and keep things peaceful. :) M.