magnetic_pole

Exactly! Us, too. Well, not "decades," but quite a while! We were living in VT when it became legal there, and we got the paperwork done immediately because we both have hostile families. (Document, document, document.) When my partner pushed for some kind of celebration, I was adamant that we call it something else--no way was I starting over at year 0 when we'd already weathered more than a decade together. M.